Joshua

Joshua is the only child that we have gotten right out of the hospital. He came to live with us when he was only 8 days old as a 2 months premature at 4 lbs and addicted to heroine and methamphetamine's. I remember many nights where Josh would wake up screaming because his body was craving the drugs. It was horrible to sit there listening to the bloodcurdling screams coming from this tinny innocent baby.

Thinking back on the memories of Joshua when he was a baby I am now glad they are become more and more distant. Though it seems now that the road to adoption with Josh was easy, it was far from it! After having Josh for about a year his social worker decided to find a "more suitable" home for him, or in other words because he was a blond haired, blue eyed, white baby, families were lined up out the door to take him. Not wanting Josh to be taken away from the only family he has known my parents hired a lawyer and fought.

After months of court dates and fighting to keep a member of our family the judge ruled in our favor and an adoption date was set. Joshua officially became a Hasemeyer and was named Joshua Caleb.

Today it is evident that Joshua was exposed to drugs in utero because of his disabilities. He has to be on medications to help him think normally and calm down. But even though he has these problems he is no different than any other 8 year old boy. He loves going on adventures with his brothers and sisters as well as playing sports in the backyard.

Joshua has the kindest heart and constantly reminds us of the love he has. I love coming home or even leaving because I am only 1 of 2 girls that Josh will kiss. If I am saying bye to the family he will run up to me and say "kissy, kissy" and make me bend over to give him a hug and a kiss. I love Joshua with all my heart, he is a great kid and I am excited to see how the Lord is going to use him not only with friends but also with our family.